Step 1: Identify The Area Of Life You Would Like To Work In.
It is often more constructive to choose one are of life to work in at a time. That doesn't mean that changes you make in one area won't affect everything else in you life - but it does how us work with more manageable chunks.
And a good rule of thumb is to pick the area of life where the most difficulties and challenges lie.
To help you do this - Rank each area of life out of 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being everything is perfect). Then select the area of life with the lowest score.
Oc course you are free to pick any area of life to work in.